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#Shoftek!

Pitch your hissy fit. You’ve earned it. Anyone in your shoes would be furious, especially today of all days. And for what it’s worth, the fact that you can be this angry and still say ‘I’ll do the right thing’ tells me everything about the kind of mom you are.

Happy birthday to Justin. I hope you can still make today about him. He deserves a good day, and he has a mom who’ll make sure he gets one, no matter what anyone else forgets.

I know you’re dreading that talk with him. You don’t have to have all the answers. You can just tell him the truth in a way he can handle, and let him tell you how he feels, whether that’s angry, sad, or nothing at all. Whatever he decides, he can change his mind later, and that’s okay too. The most important thing he’ll take from it is that you were honest with him and that you’ll be right there either way.

I’m sorry you have to put those little hearts back together one more time. That isn’t fair to you. But they’ve always had one parent who stays and picks up the pieces, and that’s you.

And yes, you did warn me about the chaos 😂 I’m still here. Chaos and all

From the MM

Thank you, that means a lot. I’ll get some rest, I promise. And you take care of yourself too. You’re carrying a lot right now. Happy birthday to Justin.

I understand what you are going through. A good parent will do nothing but the best for the children. From what I read and hear, you are one.