JA Farms

#Shoftek!

Remember when you felt guilty for how you reacted to that phone call? When you said you were probably going straight to hell, and your dad chewed you out for being cold? Cowgirl, you weren’t cold. You were right.
You knew exactly who he was. Your gut told you something was off, and you refused to give him the sympathy he was fishing for. According to his own aunt, that’s probably the only reason he didn’t try to use you and the kids for money. Your ‘being an ass’ protected your children. That’s not cruelty. That’s a mama bear who’s learned the hard way.
And this is exactly why your zero-contact rule exists. Some people don’t change, and you’ve known that about him for years.
I’m glad his aunt reached out, too. It says a lot that even his own family saw through it and wanted to warn you.