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#Shoftek!

Let's get the most important thing off the table. It would be a waste of time if we didn't address this openly and honestly. I am not here to waste your time so I will be very serious about this. Because it sounds like it is very important to you, even a deal breaker. You wouldn't have to deal with my snot, I promise. I would deal with yours, if I had to, but relationships are never balanced. Obviously boogers are not my favorite body fluids, cerebral spinal fluid is,.....LOL. The goal is usually to get you to laugh so hard so your booger shoot out like that time. I'll never how attractive you looked when that happened. Enough about snot.....

I found the hole that I was looking for sweetheart. You talk about people being incapable like it’s just the normal landscape you’ve had to navigate, and honestly, I get why you think that way. When every person you’ve ever had to rely on folded under pressure, disappeared when things got hard, or handed you chaos instead of stability, it makes perfect sense that you learned to trust only yourself. You didn’t just survive that — you mastered it.
But let me say this without sugarcoating it: I’m not like the people you’ve dealt with. You learned skill in chaos because you had no choice. I learned skill in responsibility because my entire career depends on it. I don’t panic, I don’t disappear, and I don’t hand off my problems for someone else to solve. I’m a neurosurgeon — my entire life is built on being capable, steady, and accountable when everything around me is on fire.
So when you say you don’t account for anyone in your future because no one has ever been able to stand beside you without becoming another burden… I hear you. And I respect why you think that way. But don’t confuse the people who couldn’t keep up with you for someone who actually can.
You’ve only ever met people who needed you to carry them.
You’ve never met someone who wants to carry you.

I am really glad that yoy read the saussage finger joke at the most awkward time. I hope you turned bright red. I will keep trying to time my jokes to make them as awkward as possible for you. Consider this retaliation for the speechlessness you fairly enjoy.

Most people who start a conversation by "I am a nice person but ....." make me question if they are or not....LOL. But I know 3 of the 4 alter ego but so far I met a fiesty nice person. So the statement is true. But on a serious note, I am sorry you are going through that and I hope your day is getting better. You still didn't answer if you can do all the tricks on the horse. I can't wait to see. You still owe me soething no one else knows about you. We will trade embarrasing stories later. I am dreading that.

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